TAKING RAKES IT HURT !

BUT FIRST OF ALL, LET'S LEARN LESSONS

We all take a hit in our lives. But instead of moaning about his fate, can't we rather draw positive lessons for later?

There's no point in looking back with bitterness anyway

How not to get ghosted ?

Ah, how unpleasant it is to be ghosted: no more responses to our calls and text messages.

Lourder: what like a vulgar kleenex, in a messy way to make us understand that the relationship is over, that it's dead.

First: do not get hammered in your head. It's dead, it's not coming back.

Second: do not hold a grudge because it is counterproductive and prevents you from moving forward!

Third: ask yourself what was wrong with this relationship so as not to repeat the same mistakes with the next one.

Because artichoke heart or not, we rely on it to meet another handsome boy.

He often came to talk to me when I was with some friends.

He was really nice and funny, and my heart fluttered when I thought of him… a crush, what. I imagined OUF that it was reciprocal, since he spoke to me often.

So when I learned that it was not me who wet his palms and gave him the zizidur, but my best friend, I saw everything red.

For me, it was obviously a great classic: he approached me to try his luck with my best friend ! Horrible ! Monstrous ! I had seen that in a lot of movies and yet I had been fooled, great, twenty out of twenty the human race.

I had been in love with myself. Well, well, it stings on the spot, but nobody can do anything about it, you can't force yourself (well if you can, but it hurts everyone so avoid it).

Myself, sometimes, I put rakes, because I did not have a particular feeling or attraction. Even if I haven't always done it with delicacy and properly (it always makes me so uncomfortable, this kind of situation)

I don't think I'm a bad person though !